Parenting
The Young Family
“There is no role in life more essential and more
eternal than that of motherhood.”
Elder
Ballard
I.
How
to be more prepared each day?
·
Wake up a little earlier than the rest of the
family.
·
Read scriptures
·
Pray
·
Write down your daily checklist.
1.
Something you want to do for yourself. (read for 20 mins./blog/nap/veg…)
2. Something
you want to do for someone in your family. (call grandma/write a note husband)
3. Something
you want to do in your world.
(clean the floor/organize a closet)
4.
Write any other tasks you would like to get done
that day.
·
Exercise
II.
How
to manage our home with our children?
*Routine
and Chores; which will also teach our children responsibility as well.
·
Routine/Schedule
1.
Morning (say prayers, make your bed, get dress, brush teeth &
hair)
i.
7:00am Breakfast
ii.
7:30am family scripture reading and prayers
2.
Afternoon (after school snack, homework, then free time)
3.
Dinner (sweep, dishes, front room, clear cups, wipe counters)
4.
Bed
i.
8:00pm family prayer
·
Chores
Linda Eyre from her book A
Joyful Mother of Children says “There are many
specific ways to cut down on stress in a normal hectic household. Probably one
of the most vital is to share the workload with husband and children. Although
this will almost inevitably produce mass pandemonium initially, it’s worth
sticking to it until the process becomes expected and routine. Don’t despair,
no matter what, because as children learn to accept responsibility -- from the
tiny beginnings of the two-year-old being able to get a diaper for the baby to
the big things like doing a good job cleaning the bathroom -- it is so much the
better for everybody involved.
Many
times we say to ourselves in exasperation, “I could do it so much faster and
easier myself!” Just remember -- it’s worth the time and trouble in the long
run to teach children responsibility.”
Daily
Chores for Mom
·
Kitchen (unload the dishwasher and fill dishwasher throughout
the day and wipe down counters)
·
Start a load of
laundry (place folded laundry on
children’s bed for them to put away)
·
Dinner
·
Whatever else on
to do list (I find doing a big chore daily works well).
Daily
Chores for children
·
Younger children
can do all your chores with you. (wash
dishes, play with pots and pans, unload silver wear, match socks, fold towels,
rotate laundry, shake the salad dressing…)
·
The older children
are in charge of putting away their laundry, other personal items and after
dinner chore.
Weekly
Chores
·
Saturday Morning
(every member of the family has a chore and I check the kids). We do get a Saturday treat after chores.
·
Our daily and
weekly chores are expected with no allowance. We do have an “EXTRA” chore chart
with prices next to each chore. If the children want to make money after family
chores they can do extras.
III.
How
to teach the young child?
Children
learn best through play. Set-up a routine schedule that works well for both you
and your child. You can break it up throughout the day.
·
Schedule a lesson plan into your day. And talk a lot, emphasize words.
·
Reading Time
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Arts and Crafts
·
Letters, Numbers, Colors, Shapes, Sorting,
Patterns
·
Sing Songs/listen to music
·
Color
·
Write
·
Build with blocks (don't let them destroy your tower)
·
Play dress-up
P Play cars (talk with them about what they are doing "Max is driving the YELLOW car OVER the bridge)
·
Count (can do this while driving)
·
Rhyme Words (can do this while driving)
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Respect for property (don't let them destroy toys)
·
Have Quiet Time (not nap time, quiet alone time. Need to expect more from our
children)
IV.
How to make time
for yourself, husband and each child?
We build deep and loving family relationships
by doing simple things together, like family dinner and family home evening and
by just having fun together. In family relationships love is really
spelled t-i-m-e, time. Taking time for each other is the key for harmony
at home. We talk with, rather than about, each other. We learn from each other,
and we appreciate our differences as well as our commonalities. We establish a
divine bond with each other as we approach God together through family prayer,
gospel study, and Sunday worship.”
Dieter F. Uchtdorf
·
“Mommy is a person” (Refer to article on powerofmoms.com)
·
Weekly Date Night with husband (even if it’s at home with takeout & a
movie)
·
Date with child (not necessarily out just sometime 1 on 1 with each child...painting
nails, playing a game, reading a book, going to the store)
*I
feel we can Make Time for anything we
really want to.
V. Wonderful resources listed below.
